For the highly sensitive high-achiever who’s ready to stop white-knuckling success — and start embodying it.
You’re done contorting yourself to fit a version of success that was never built for your depth, intuition, or nervous system.
You’re already self-aware but you've outgrown the mindset hacks, productivity sprints, and surface-level strategies that leave you depleted and doubting yourself behind closed doors.
You’re ready to lead, create, and live from your inner authority — not from pressure, perfectionism, or a nervous system stuck in overdrive.
This is where your sensitivity becomes your greatest advantage.
Where your ambition no longer burns you out — it fuels aligned momentum.
Let me start by saying this:
If you're here, I already know you are wildly capable of healing & creating the most extraordinary life — this work doesn't call to those who aren't.
So you've felt that nudge to inquire, allow me to make a few assumptions that one or more of these apply to you:
- You have a big vision and a desire to create a positive ripple effect in the world but imposter syndrome or perfectionism likes to sneak up on you just when you're starting to see real progress
- You are highly self aware, dare I say 'high functioning' but don't always trust your intuition or emotions
- You perhaps felt like an outsider growing up because you were told you were 'too much' or 'too sensitive' so now you water yourself down for the comfort of others
- You crave freedom in your work and life, yet find yourself trapped in a cycle of over-commitment and burnout because saying ‘no’ feels impossible
- You feel things deeply with an intensity that others could only reach with a psychedelic substance under the full moon on a beach in Thailand and whilst there's so much beauty in that depth, you're looking for tangible, practical ways to prevent overwhelm, feel grounded and calm your nervous system
- You know you’re capable of so much more, but the fear of failing or not getting it 'just right' keeps you stuck in analysis paralysis and you're ready to find your flow state
Past & Present Finding Flow State clients have included:
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Soul-led entrepreneurs (aspiring or seasoned) stuck in boom-and-bust cycles who want to create sustainable, satisfying momentum without sacrificing their wellbeing.
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Empathetic healthcare + veterinary professionals carrying compassion fatigue who want to reignite their passion, hold boundaries, and ride the emotional waves with skill.
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Ambitious tech founders + corporate change-makers ready to break up with hustle culture and redefine high performance on their own terms.
- Multi-passionate visionaries ready to ditch the self-sabotage and unleash focus, confidence, and creative flow.
Common thread? A deep desire to make an impact — without abandoning yourself in the process.
Katherine S. Hong Kong
ECC Senior Veterinarian
I am so thankful to Steph for her guidance and support. She is emotionally intelligent, kind, patient, and empathetic, and signing up for one-on-one coaching sessions with her was one of the best investment decisions which I have made!
I found the shadow work to be particularly effective, as through these sessions Steph helped me to identify and to heal from several long-standing childhood traumas and emotional blockages. She helped me more than my previous therapists, and I can truly say that she has changed my life for the better!
There are still some areas which I recognise that I need to work on, including redeveloping my creative side after working for many years in the medical profession, but I recognise that it will take time for me to change my habits. Overall, Steph's guidance and support have been invaluable, and I will definitely consider further coaching sessions with her depending upon my creative progress this year.
Alex, D. Country Victoria, AU
Chiropractor
When I decided to sign up for coaching with Steph, I was in the depths of some huge life changes - uni life to being an employed new grad, living with my friends in the city to moving back in with my parents in country Victoria. Feeling overwhelmed with the change, as well as being quite the perfectionist & "too" self aware, I was hoping to find more ease as I moved through these life changes & to finally make changes within myself that I had been well aware of for a while but had been unsuccessful in moving through them by myself.
Since completing a 12 week container with Steph, I've seen so many changes within myself. As someone who would quieten my own voice to make others more comfortable, I've finally started to find my voice plus start making decisions & initiate conversations that actually put myself first, rather than shying away. I've also started to find peace in the ups & downs of being a new graduate & not being perfect at things first go - instead trusting the journey of becoming. In general my self worth has increased as well, & I'm able to catch myself in certain thoughts & wondering how these narratives came to be.
This has been one of the best investments I've made in myself, & highly recommend to anyone ready to take the next step & commit to change!
Samantha A. London, UK.
Veterinarian in Leadership
I really enjoyed working with Steph. She has a unique gift for asking the right kinds of questions and coaching you towards a place of mental emotional clarity.
Her insight challenges you to dig deeper, reflect honestly, and uncover the beliefs and patterns driving your actions.
Steph is very relatable and down-to-earth, and she brings a calm, wise presence that immediately puts you at ease. She’s engaging, entertaining, and understanding - a genuinely great guide through both personal and professional growth.
Belinda S. Australia
Embodied Business Mentor
How Finding Flow State Coaching can help:
You see, being highly sensitive does not mean being highly stressed. Not in my world.
Being highly sensitive is a gift. I am sick and tired of the rhetoric that being sensitive means you are weak, fragile or condemned to a life of overwhelm and victimhood.
But being highly sensitive means your nervous system is like a finely tuned Ferrari vs your dad's 10-year old Toyota hatchback.
When you attune to your nervous system properly and learn how to handle all those extra gears with the skill and precision of a Formula 1 driver, you will consistently out-perform the rest of the field.
When harnessed like the true superpower it is, you are unstoppable.
But too many highly sensitive high performers are hustling hard but simultaneously your nervous system is pumping the brakes.
That's where trauma-informed performance coaching comes in.
Finding Flow State Coaching is a holistic and inclusive container for lasting transformation focused on three main pillars:
1. Mindset + mindful productivity
First, we get clear on your values and intentions to develop an actionable strategy so you can creature structure that feels like freedom. Get crystal-clear clarity and sharpen your focus by identifying the needle-moving activities in your life, career and business that will create real momentum and easeful, flow state productivity.
2. Somatics and nervous system regulation
Discover practical, tangible tools to create safety in your body, actually feel your feelings without reactivity and effectively manage stress. But it's not just about being 'calm'. Once you have mastered your own unique nervous system, let's expand your capacity to build resilience and create space for aligned opportunities.
3. Subconscious reprogramming
Some might say this is the pièce de résistance, for when you've tried all the 'mindset hacks' but still don't feel fully embodied in this new version of you. In our subconscious healing sessions, we’ll dive into trauma-informed hypnotherapy, somatic healing, and energetic. We’ll uncover unconscious limiting beliefs through inner child and shadow work, allowing you to release patterns that no longer serve you and create lasting change.
The nitty gritty details
- Premium, high-touch support with Steph Ellen, an expert coach & somatic practitioner
- Biweekly calls (2 per month (including the three pillars: mindset, nervous system, subconscious healing)
- 5 days/week voice note/messenger coaching for continued integrating and ongoing support
Investment options:
All prices in USD but AUD available on request for local Aussies ✨
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6 weeks (3 calls total + access to Embodied Authority) at $999 (USD) with payment plans available (3 x monthly payments of $333)
- Includes access to Embodied Authority, a 6 week nervous system revolution to rewire imposter syndrome
- 6 months (12 calls + above inclusions) at $3k or (6 x monthly payments of $500)
- Includes access to all courses or programmes offered at the time including client favourites Shameless Self Expression, Embodied Authority & Inner Critic Tamer (live mastermind experience starting September 2025) valued at $1500+